dear ilanders

A few days ago I posted a blog & the response I got made me post this piece. Although the previous blog  was a bit sarcastic(atleast from my point of view) this one is more on a serious note.

First thing first.

FRNDS I thought blogging means sharing your most intimate thoughts & fellings with online frnds. I thought blogging means lending a helping hand whenever your frnds are stressed or depressed.

Well my previous blog offended many of my iland frnds ( read male ilanders)and some even went to the extent of challenging my inner strength  & suggested that if i m sooooo angry with my man than why dont I leave him? This was not the point I wanted to make that blog just showed the stressful beiginning of my everyday.And I know that many working women start there day in the same manner and feel the same amount of stress which I go through every day. I am not saying that men are not stressed out but from time immorial men consider themselves as providers and preceive women as nourishers so they restrict themselves with outside chores(business, work,etc).

ALTHOUGH IN METRO CITIES MEN ARE NOW MORE  N MORE INVOLVING THEMSELVES ON THE DOMESTIC FRONT, BUT THE SITUATION IN SMALL TOWNS AND CITIES IS STILL POIGNANT.

If you people say that you treat women at par with men than you are lying a bit are not you?  there is no place on this earth where women are treated equally.In my previous blog  I wasnot generalising the behaviour of men neither I am  one of those who want the word man kind changed into woman kind.

With that blog I just wanted to convey that we women donot nead much but just little words of appreciation and respect  now and then so that when we are stressed or depressed we can think of those little words which make us important in our MAN'S life.

" LIFE IS LIKE A NOVEL WITH THE END RIPPED OUT."